HELLO SISTERS……

I am a RHODES SCHOLAR

I POSSESS two PhD s and one DOCTOR of letter,

I belong to 23 academic fellowships across the world

I was previously nominated for the Nobel Prize in economics.

And as the chair of this panel SIT DOWN……

This was my best part of the movie ‘CITATION’.

I literally screamed and shouted ‘SIT DOWN’ even before Ibukun Awosika said it.

Hey Mrs X,

The narratives are changing, can you not see it?

Gone are the days when all a woman is entitled to is to be a homemaker and children maker,

While these aren’t bad, as a woman, your life should not revolve around that ALONE.

Understand your uniqueness as an individual and make the best use of it.

Marriage isn’t the only thing you came to this world for,

It shouldn’t be the apex of your reality,

There is more to you.

It is just one of the numerous FAVOURS that God has bestowed on you.

Stop limiting yourself to being just a married woman,

Pursue your personal goals, ambitions and follow through.

Hey purpose driven Single Sister,

Never forget this,

There are two options for you when it comes to choosing a life partner

1. A super supportive partner

2. No partner at all.

There is no point committing yourself to a man who isn’t capable of watering you, helping you grow and cheering you on as you succeed .

If you’re with a man who is easily intimidated by your small wins,

Please RUN for your life because if you decide to stay, there would be a great challenge when your big WINs start happening.

Hey Sissy,

There is more to you,

Your brain isn’t coated with colour pink while a man’s brain is coated with blue.

Question papers meant for girls aren’t painted in pink either.

You are a woman, The spirit of multiplicity is greatly at work in you,

Use it to your own advantage.

AND YES

You can have it all; marriage, career, vision, goals and ALL

Cheers…….